Shout to the readers that hit me up last week, because there wasn’t a post. Sorry I had writers block and instead of giving you some wack ish I took the day off. It happens *shrugs* Got an interesting subject for you today though…

Lovers and Friends… (Usher ft. Ludacris and Lil Jon)

Is it possible to be lovers and friends without having the title? You know you got a friend ya’ll cool, ya’ll hang out together, club together but you do your thing and they do theirs. There’s an understanding that it’s a special kind of friendship, and ya’ll just kicking it for the moment with no strings attached. At what point though, do both of ya’ll realize that you may just be playing each other out of something special? I wonder how many relationships have been blocked because we were being greedy. Yea I said it “greedy”. Thinking back on my past, I personally can count a few that may have gone somewhere but we were both playing the field, thought we found something somewhere else, or just being greedy. I recently had a conversation with a close friend about her “friendship” she had going on. They started as friends with benefits, it grew into something else but there wasn’t a title placed upon it and he was getting impatient with her. The fact that she had a rocky past, placed limitations on where she wanted to take this new relationship. She was afraid that once titles were placed upon the relationship things would change, or rather he would change…lol. I explained to her that Change is inevitable, we’re all gonna change at some point. Look at yourself 5 years ago, I’m sure that you’re not that same person are you? Now think about where you want to be 5 years from now, definitely not in the same position you’re in now right? The things that make you different and are gonna make you a different person are the things that you experience through your life. I told her that ya’ll could either keep playing with each other and experience different life situations and battle those alone with ya’ll team of one asses, are quit bullshitting and combat them as they come along as a strong unit. You like this person enough for a reason right? You like hanging with this person even if ya’ll not humping right? I told her to quit bullshitting so she could make sure she always had a Hump Day partner, instead of temps… lol SideNote: Shout out to all those that have Friends With Benefits and are happy the way things are right now though…

B. Reason
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